Beware These 6 Common Myths People Believe When Wedding Planning

When planning a wedding, there is a ton of pressure on the couple to make the event's standards meet the expectations of their guests. The time, money and energy spent into creating the perfect day could result in unwanted stress leading up to that special event. The details behind planning a wedding aren’t the only worry for the couple, though. There are many myths that may deter the bride and groom from following through with their dream wedding.

It seems that everyone has an opinion or suggestion when it comes down to wedding planning. If the soon-to-be-wedded couple doesn't know any better, they will ultimately try planning around all of the myths and falsehoods that may convince them that all weddings should be based on tradition. With the pressure of competition in today's society, it is almost too easy to be persuaded to believe that there is only one way to have a fabulous wedding. Beware of the 6 most common myths that plague wedding planning.

1 - You should never purchase the first dress you fall in love with

When watching bridal shows, notice how the bride has to try on several dresses even though the first one was everything she’s envisioned. Selecting the perfect wedding dress may be the most important decision the bride has to make when it comes to the wedding. If she does not look or feel beautiful, nothing else will matter. It is important not to be consumed with the thought that purchasing the first dress means missing out on something even better. To make selecting the right dress a breeze, we should know exactly what we are looking for. Once the bride has found the right dress, she shouldn’t second guess it.

2 - You should spend a specific amount on your wedding

While almost every woman dreams of the perfect wedding day, every woman doesn't have the funds for an extravagant, over-the-top wedding. However, this is not to say that the perfect day can’t be achieved at various budgets. There are many factors to consider when determining the budget for the event. If the burden of debt entering the marriage is an issue, one should consider what aspects are most important and where they could possibly shave costs. This is something that couple or the individual funding the event should decide. It’s okay to talk with others to gather ideas, but the couple should keep in mind that every situation and every wedding is different.

3 - A wedding is all about the bride

Generally speaking, it’s fair to say that the bride is far more opinionated than the groom when it comes down to making wedding-related decisions. However, contrary to popular belief, the groom does matter. Incorporating the groom in important details or decisions that the bride can’t sort through may make planning far less complex. Without a doubt, two heads are better than one. Who else better to plan with then the person we are going to spend the rest of our lives with?

4 - If you were on their guest list, they should be on yours

Some people underestimate the guest list up until they are putting it together. When it comes to choosing who to invite, the most important factor is whether the bride and groom want the individual in attendance. If all guest lists included people who we are simply being kind to, we would possibly drive up the overall cost of the wedding. Having the people that mean the most to us is what makes the day that more special.

5 - Wedding planners are unnecessary

When thinking of an event planner, one may picture high-end, outlandish weddings that require professional coordination. However, wedding planners may be a good idea no matter how big or small the event is. If stress is getting in the way of enjoying and looking forward to that special day, chances are that the tasks are overwhelming. Wedding planners are experts who are equipped to handle multiple aspects such as décor, the venue and catering. If there is little to no wiggle room for a wedding planner in the budget, one should consider hiring a planner only on the day of the wedding to ensure things run smoothly. She can also take advantage of the free wedding planning resources online that are great for organization.

6 - You should follow tradition

The last and probably biggest myth is that the couple should follow tradition. Not following some traditions are even considered bad luck. Superstition is no way to start a happy marriage. It is perfectly okay to steer away from tradition when desired. If a particular tradition holds no meaning or significance, there is no reason why a couple shouldn’t be able to bypass this tradition if they wish. The perfect wedding day should reflect what’s special and sacred to the bride and groom.